Three ways to come as a pair
I work with couples in three forms, and we settle which one suits you before I confirm the date.
- Both of you as my guests. You both hand over control and I lead you together – side by side, in turns, or so that one of you bears the consequences of what the other does.
- One partner in training. One of you is trained; the other is present and has agreed just as firmly.
- Learning together. One of you watches how I lead, the other feels what surrender is like.
If you are both submissive, the first form comes close to group training, which also needs a minimum of 120 minutes.
Training one partner – only if both of you want it
Partner training means I train one of you while the other is in the room. Perhaps one has long wished to be led in front of the person they love. What decides it is that both want it – above all the one being trained.
Nobody can commission a session on someone else's behalf, and certainly not as a surprise.
The watching partner has a role of their own: they observe, are drawn in when I signal it, and hold their own safeword. Their wishes reach me as suggestions, never as instructions. One theme that can follow a couple home is chastity and keyholding.
Learning to lead and to yield
Some couples know who wants to lead and who to give way, but not how to begin. I lead the submissive partner, and the other watches exactly how I do it: how I give an instruction, where I let a pause sit, how I check a limit and hold tension. Whether they then take over a step or two under my eye, we agree beforehand.
You will not leave finished, but with a shared vocabulary – words, signals, rules – and with the lesson that comes before all others: how to take a safeword seriously.
Consent and a safeword for every person
With a couple, I count two individuals, not one unit. For each of you:
- You consent yourself – directly to me, not through your partner.
- You are an adult. Each of you confirms being 18 or over; I may ask for proof.
- You accept the declaration. Each of you confirms the consent, health and liability declaration separately and names their own health restrictions.
- You have your own safeword. When either of you says theirs, everything stops at once – not only what concerns that person. We continue only after I have spoken with both of you.
- Your limits hold. What one of you rules out does not happen, however much the other may want it.
No intercourse, no oral sex – and that includes between the two of you during the session. My taboos and what happens when a session is broken off are set out under limits and safety.
Four in the room: adding my Dominus
If you both wish it, my regular Dominus, Alexander Blake, can join us, and roles can be divided differently – each of you might have a guide of your own. His presence adds €300 for every hour; how a duo runs is described under Mistress and Dominus.
Price, duration and how to request
Partner training takes a minimum of 120 minutes: letting two people arrive, clarifying both sets of limits and building a dynamic between three participants takes longer than with one guest. In the calendar, the three-hour Intensive fits best.
The price shown in your request applies: €250 for an hour starting before 8 pm, €300 for one starting at 8 pm or later, so three hours come to between €750 and €900. Practice surcharges are agreed in advance. On top comes the room fee paid directly to Studio 60, booked by you for the whole session. Deposit and payment are explained under prices and booking.
- One of you chooses a date and notes that you are coming as a couple, and in which form.
- I confirm personally; the deposit then secures the appointment.
- Before we begin, each of you confirms consent and age to me in person and agrees a safeword of your own.