How training differs from a session
A single session is an experience: it begins, rises and ends. Training has a memory. What you learnt last time I take for granted next time; what you got wrong does not go unanswered just because a week has passed.
You no longer arrive as a guest with a wish but as someone who is expected – with rules you know and mistakes you should not repeat. I, in turn, plan beyond the evening: which rule comes next, which ritual has settled, where you must give way instead of bargaining.
The foundation is your Safe Room profile with your experience, limits and wish list. How I handle limits and the safeword is set out under limits and safety, and it applies in every lesson.
Rules, rituals and tasks
Three tools carry every course of training; their force comes from repetition.
- Rules govern how you conduct yourself: how you address me, when you may speak, how you stand, kneel or wait. Each is short and unambiguous, so that breaking it is unambiguous too.
- Rituals give each visit a form that does not wear thin: the greeting with which you arrive, the posture in which you receive instructions, the leave you take. After a few times your body knows what I expect.
- Tasks test whether the rules hold without my eyes on you – services and exercises in the room, assignments you account for between visits.
A breach has consequences. Sometimes it is a word that lands – humiliation and verbal dominance are included, see humiliation. Sometimes it is the cane, which fixes a rule more deeply than any reprimand; it costs nothing extra either.
Enslavement at the studio
Enslavement asks for time, so it can be booked from 180 minutes. For three hours you are not a guest but a possession: you serve, wait, carry and keep still. In objectification play you become an object – a piece of furniture, a surface, a servant standing ready until needed. The frame is the Intensive at €750 to €900 depending on its starting time, plus the room fee for the full three hours; details under prices and booking.
By arrangement, enslavement reaches beyond the end of the session: rules you take home and duties that continue there. How far that goes, we define explicitly before it begins.
Military drill, from 120 minutes, is strictness of another kind: standing to attention, reporting, marching until every movement is right – role play between adults. Group training with several submissives also starts at 120 minutes. And whoever wants to face two dominants can add my Dominus Alexander Blake for €300 per hour on top.
Between appointments
Training that happens only in the studio fades before the next visit, so between appointments I do not let go entirely:
- Video session. In an online session I spend 45 minutes checking whether your rules hold, take your report and set new tasks – from €180, balance due before we begin.
- Chastity. A locked cage reminds you every hour whom you obey; see chastity and keyholding.
- Messages in the Safe Room. That is where you report what you have done, and where you find my words.
How often, and in what form, I decide once I know you. Devotion that reaches far beyond single appointments is the subject of my essay on 24/7 devotion.
Where we begin
Nobody is declared my slave in a single evening. The start is an ordinary session of one or two hours, in which I see how you respond to instructions, where your pride sits and how quickly you learn.
- Choose a first date. Pick type, day and time and mention in the note that training interests you.
- The first lesson. I set a handful of rules and one ritual. Nothing more.
- The decision. Afterwards I decide whether and how it continues. Enslavement or military drill come only once the foundation bears weight.
The first meeting itself is described in the guide to your first session.