Who I am
I am a dominatrix by profession, which means two things at once. It means a craft: reading a person quickly, setting a frame, holding it, and knowing exactly when to tighten or loosen it. And it means a business with rules, appointments and prices, run with the same care. I work with adults who have decided to hand over control for a defined stretch of time, and who want that handover to be taken seriously.
I do not publish a biography of dates and places. What you need to know about me shows in how I work, and in what I write. My conviction is that dominance begins in the head and only then reaches the body; the essay on total control explains why.
I speak English and German, and English is not an afterthought here. The conversation before a session, the rules, the session itself – all of it can take place in English if that is your language. Whether you live in Munich, are here for a few days or will never travel here at all, we can work in English.
How I work
Before anything happens, we agree on your wishes, your limits and a safeword, and you tell me about anything that concerns your health. Within that frame I decide on content and intensity. Booking a practice gives you no right to it; agreeing a limit gives you every right to rely on it. The safeword ends whatever is happening, immediately.
I expect guests to arrive on time, well groomed and sober. Whoever is drunk or under the influence of drugs is not received. No photos, no video, no audio without prior agreement; phones stay off. Discretion applies on both sides, and I keep to it as strictly as I ask you to.
Prices are fixed, and I do not haggle: an hour costs €250, or €300 if it starts at 8 pm or later, plus the room you book directly with Studio 60. Surcharges, the deposit and the exact booking steps are explained on prices and booking.
My disciplines
In the studio my work ranges from mental dominance, interrogation and humiliation to bondage, the cane and the whip, clinic sessions, chastity and role play strictly between adults. For guests who want two dominants in the room, Dominus Alexander Blake joins me; how a duo works is described under mistress and dominus. An overview of everything I offer in person, with the way to the studio, is on Domina Munich.
At a distance I work by video: forty-five minutes of guidance, tasks and control, booked from anywhere in the world – see online sessions. And I write. Nine essays describe the disciplines in my own words, from mental dominance to tribute; they are a good way to find out whether my way of thinking suits yours.
What I do not do is just as much a part of who I am. No intercourse, no oral sex. Needles and catheters are not part of my work either, and I meet guests in person only at Studio 60.
Official channels
There are few of them, and that is deliberate:
- This website, mistress-alexa.com. Calendar, prices, rules and essays. Everything else starts here.
- WhatsApp and Telegram, via the booking buttons. When you choose a date, one tap opens WhatsApp or Telegram with your request already written. Use the buttons: they put your request straight into my chat.
- My Telegram channel, @mistressalexadomination. News and announcements – a channel to follow, not an inbox.
- The Safe Room. My members' area on this website, with login by e-mail link, where you keep your profile, wish list and messages.
Profiles with the same name on other platforms are not mine. If someone contacts you as Mistress Alexa from anywhere else, do not send money or personal details – start again from this website.
What I never ask for
Knowing what a genuine request from me looks like protects you. So, plainly:
- I never ask for money before I have confirmed your date myself.
- For a session in Munich, the €50 deposit is all I ask for in advance; it is credited, and the balance is paid in cash when we meet. For a video session, the balance is due before the call begins.
- I never ask you to pay through a link, account or contact that did not come with my personal confirmation.
- I never make tribute a condition of anything. Tribute is voluntary, and I do not play exposure or blackmail games.
- I never ask you to give up a limit you have set. We may talk about limits; they only change if you change them.
If a message claiming to be from me breaks one of these rules, it is not from me.
Contact
The way to me is the calendar. Choose a date, pick the kind of session, a day and a start time, and send the message that opens in WhatsApp or Telegram. I read it, I answer it, and only my confirmation makes the appointment binding. Same-day dates are possible when a slot is free.
If you have questions before you write, the page on prices and booking answers most of them, and the essays answer the rest. German speakers will find this page in German under Über Mistress Alexa.